What Are "Bedroom Eyes"? (with pictures)

Mark Wollacott
Mark Wollacott
A man making bedroom eyes.
A man making bedroom eyes.

The phrase “bedroom eyes” refers to a glance or look given by one person to another to suggest a romantic or sexual desire. The recipient has the feeling that the person with such eyes is almost hypnotizing them into similar feelings. These eyes are described in various ways, but tend to be dreamy, sultry and seductive eyes.

“Bedroom eyes” is a non-literal or semi-literal collocation where two words, ‘bedroom’ plus ‘eyes,’ have been placed together in order to derive a third meaning. In this case, the hidden meaning is a desire and invitation to something else. The bedroom is the desire and the eyes make the invitation.

Women often twirl their hair and look over their shoulders when they are flirting.
Women often twirl their hair and look over their shoulders when they are flirting.

The reaction is in the eyes of the beholder, literally. This means that the phenomenon could be a simple matter of perception. The person who likes the person with “bedroom eyes” is seeing an attractive feature rather than a projected look created in order to get the other to bed. This means having such eyes is sub-conscious and cannot be recreated.

Bedroom eyes from a woman tend to be dreamy and seductive.
Bedroom eyes from a woman tend to be dreamy and seductive.

To describe someone as having “bedroom eyes” is to attribute to him or her a positive aspect. This insinuates that the beholder wants to see something positive in the other person and wants to be seduced by them; what he or she sees reflected is his or her own desire. If he or she did not want to see “bedroom eyes,” he or she would describe the person as “lecherous” or “seedy.”

Eye movements are important when conveying flirtatious intentions.
Eye movements are important when conveying flirtatious intentions.

Eyes have been associated with conveying inner emotions and desires for centuries. Science is beginning to understand how eyes reflect a person's personality and can be used in sex. Orebro University in 2007 tested iris patterns and then compared them to personality types and found a clear correlation. The University of Melbourne in 2010 tested minute eye movements to study where people look when they are flirting. These studies complement others on the important role of eyes and eye contact in seduction.

So-called "bedroom eyes" could be real or perceived by the one receiving the look.
So-called "bedroom eyes" could be real or perceived by the one receiving the look.

The phrase has appeared as a film title in the 1980s. William Fruet’s movie concerns a voyeuristic runner who aims to look at women or a woman, but instead witnesses a murder. Bedroom Eyes is also the name of a Swedish rock-pop singer, whose real name is Jonas Jonsson, who debuted in 2009.

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Discussion Comments

jessiwan

I think that when someone has "bedroom eyes", which means they are constantly giving out signals, it's a very creepy thing. Kind of funny, because they think that they are being alluring, but fundamentally creepy. I would not want to be looked at that way. The only time I will sort of welcome bedroom eyes is when it's from a guy that I already like. And even if that's the case, I still prefer words. Words are the chief way humans communicate with each other, and non-verbal communications are only supplementary. Bedroom eyes would not make me fall for a guy. His words are the only thing that can.

Inaventu

To me, a good bedroom eyes definition includes a deliberate attempt at seduction. I have been around women who had very beautiful eyes, but they weren't always trying to project a sexual image. If they became attracted to a man at a bar, however, they could change the way they looked at him. A man or woman with bedroom eyes can definitely send out a powerful sign of interest.

mrwormy

I think it's really hard to define bedroom eyes, since it's mostly about perception. I'd say a lot of Hollywood-level actors and pop stars have bedroom eyes, like Elvis Presley and Marilyn Monroe. They aren't always bright-eyed and cheerful, but they have slightly hooded eyes and a sultry half-sleepy gaze. Other entertainers may project a raw sexuality, but they don't all have that same seductive quality.

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    • A man making bedroom eyes.
      A man making bedroom eyes.
    • Women often twirl their hair and look over their shoulders when they are flirting.
      Women often twirl their hair and look over their shoulders when they are flirting.
    • Bedroom eyes from a woman tend to be dreamy and seductive.
      Bedroom eyes from a woman tend to be dreamy and seductive.
    • Eye movements are important when conveying flirtatious intentions.
      Eye movements are important when conveying flirtatious intentions.
    • So-called "bedroom eyes" could be real or perceived by the one receiving the look.
      So-called "bedroom eyes" could be real or perceived by the one receiving the look.